"Orgasms". Working a sex shop during the war, anxious suitcase and censorship of sex-a frank conversation
In one bottle here, there is a sex shop and an educational channel on YouTube, where girls discuss popular stereotypes about sex, tell about adult toys and discuss on candid topics, calling themselves "orgasms". Video of the day is in an ecclesiastical interactive store for adults, as its founders are represented, and its Instagram page is now signed by more than 31. 5 thousand people. There you can find out about the range of sex shops and watch a video guide about the features of using a toy.
Hot Mamas Shop has four people. But with the start of a full -scale war, most of them, including co -founder, have temporarily left. Only two of them remained in Lviv-SEO Natalka molecular, she is a molecule, and a projected manager Nastya Paprotska. We meet with them in one of the cafes in the center of Lviv. Almost immediately the molecule is recognized by two women who were just passing by at this time.
One of them, smiling, says that at Hot Mamas Shop she was helped to choose the right menstrual bowl and she is very pleased with it. In an interview with HB, the molecule and Nastya talk about which goods are most purchased by Ukrainians after the start of a full -scale war, they think about whether sexual education lessons can stand on a schedule along with Christian ethics, and explain whether porn and eroticism should be legalized in Ukraine.
Work during the war and sex toy in a alarming suitcase of the molecule: on February 24, 2022 I had to have a trip to the Carpathians. I was preparing, but I realized that I would not go anywhere. And all, our team, went away. Only Nastya remained in Lviv. Nastya: I stayed in Lviv. We stopped working, like everyone else, but in two weeks we started writing customers and asking if you can buy something. We decided that it was time to open.
Molecule: After February 24, people began to order more devices that work at a distance. Many women moved abroad, men to the front. Many families were now forced to divorce. And everyone wanted to be at least somehow. There are even male masturbates that can be controlled remotely. Previously, we had no availability, and now we take. Speaking of exclusive goods in general, for example, I ordered a sex machine. More precisely, her travel version.
We realized that real trouble is to find cool and high quality. The people who understand this, say, say, this is good, and this is bad, and these are terrible for me and very expensive. We have such a light BDSM. And there is nothing like that. We are very gentle. I still liked the anal syringe. Water in three sides flows. This is when an enema can be fun. And in general, the most exclusive product in our store is probably our merch: pillows with Mr. Clitors.
Molecule: If I take an alarming suitcase, I will put a vacuum stimulator for the clitoris and the Vumanizer Premium. Still - a stimulating gel. And a lubricant, because a alarming suitcase without a lubricant is in no way. Cool lubricant, cool toy and warming balm for the clitoris or for the head of a member. Nastya: Yes, the hammer is cool, but it is quite expensive compared to other toys. But I would still choose a hammer.
However, when people ask that we would advise as a first toy, as a rule, we do not advise it because of expensive. We first suggest you try the simpler variants of toys with vacuum stimulation of the clitoris. Youth, the first menstruation and the role of Nastya's contraception: when I was a teenager, I had a guy and a monthly delay. I asked my mom to record me with a gynecologist. And she is: “Oh, God! You are no longer a girl. " I say, "No.
" And she: "That you don't do it anymore!" Molecule: And then: "Where are your grandchildren?" But I no longer do it, moms! In my childhood, no one told me anything. No about menstruation or sex. They just said, "Take care of yourself!" All. I was missing everything. I am 33, and then the Internet was even born, and everything. You could read something somewhere, see some erotic video cassette somewhere, and that's everything.
The older brother, whom we have a difference of 10 years, did not talk to me. Something happened, but that is unknown. The school also had the only lesson in puberty, something about human reproduction. The teacher said, "This is for you to work independently. " We thanked. We thank the individual brands - the manufacturers of the pads that came, consultants, and told about the menstruation, gave two gaskets, why I was very happy.
The worst thing I didn't even understand what they were talking about, to be honest. It was 7th grade. And when your girlfriends began earlier, everyone was silent. Because they thought it was ashamed. Why - I don't know. Nastya: I do not even remember how I had menstruation, I can't remember. It seems that we talked about it. It started with the fact that you are sitting, you are bad, and you can't go to physical education, but you need to explain what's going on with you, and it was Okay.
But I do not remember whether we were told in lessons about sex or menstruation. And about contraception - in general. Molecule: We were not even shown how to put a condom. This is a problem, by the way, because many women are not able to. Nastya: We did a survey who usually puts on a condom in a couple. It turned out that in more than 80% of cases, men do. Why? I went and asked for my husband. He said, because so - faster. It seems to me that it would be necessary at school.
In general, I hear that everyone is sleeping with condoms. It may be in my bubble, but most of them will not be a condom - there will be no sex. All. One girl recently told me: “If a partner does not want to wear a condom, then he does not want sex with me so much. Let it walk. " I think it's cool. Today, there is a lot of information about how often, what tests to take, where it can be handed over. There are many HIV testing points for other sexually transmitted infections.
It is a care of your health, not because you do not trust or think that your partner is "sick". No, this is a normal practice. Molecule: The present youth up to 30, even up to 25 years old, are people who have more borders, follow their health more. Stereotypes in sex, the number of partners in women, and where Nastya's excitement comes from: it is very difficult to explain to a person that her excitement, her orgasm depends only on her. Everything goes from the head, from the brain.
You can't spread something on yourself so that you get easier and you want at one point. Because people say, "Give me something! I'm not excited, I have a libido at zero. Give me a piece so that I smeared and or or or or or or or passed. " People think, if they buy a single toy, something will be designed, their lives will change in one second. And if this does not happen, then this thing is bullshit. Molecule: People think that adult toys will suddenly change everything in bed.
But it's not! It's just a tool. Nastya: Often, people need to give instructions how [use toys in sex] to do, and then they rejoice. But you need to understand why you need it, because no one can decide for you. These are some stereotypes that will come and say what you need to do in bed. We only give ideas and do not be responsible for bringing pleasure to a particular person, because we are all very different, and we need to look for ways for orgasms on our own.
Molecule: Another stereotype is about the number of partners in women. This is not a closed question. 2022, feminist, all we have equal rights, but if a woman has more than 10 partners - everything! You're not Madonna! There are still so many men who believe that "if the key approaches all locks, then it is a cool key, and if all the keys come to one lock, then it is a bad lock. " It is a super -stubborn label and a stereotype. Like the one, allegedly a vibrator can replace a man.
No toy, no vibrator will replace a person. Censorship of sex in life and social networks Nastya: now on Instagram it is impossible to make inspections of goods, because everything is swept. We had a page removed, and we miraculously restored it. So we try not to drain censorship. Molecule: Although sex shop without dildos is very difficult. We come up with something like this: cucumbers, corn . . . We have an epoxy dildo, it is just like a scenery. But they often ask where you can buy it.
Once they even asked if it was a jelly, because it seemed like it. And it was a lot of fun in the comments, people rejoiced in the jelly. But we do not sell it. Such is the story. Did not get rich. Nastya: A few days ago I got to another company, we played in a crocodile. And there was necessary to explain the clitoris. And no one called him. Then the one who showed it, voiced the word, and everyone: oh, I knew, but did not say, because it was ashamed.
Something went wrong, because things need to be named. Sexual lessons for children, Christian ethics and the influence of Galicia of the molecule: I like to stretch Galicia, its morality. I am from a conservative family, pious. And in principle, half of such a population, if not more. Nastya: Especially if you live in the village, you nuts. Molecule: That's for sure. It is strange to me that my parents did not reject me because of my activity.
I do not come to their external parameters: I have blue hair, dads, and here is a sex shop. Natalko! You had to be an engineer! My parents learned about my activity when we were on the Super Intuition show. I was there as an invited guest, in the heading where the participants had to guess who of the people in the studio-the owner of the sex shop. In our sex shop there are paintings with Lesya Ukrainka, with Taras Shevchenko, with Stepan Bandera. People said differently: "Fu, hanged themselves!".
They asked: "And what, without the Bandera, do not sell?" Oh God, but Stepan Bandera never had sex! Nastya: For many years in Ukraine they want to introduce sex education as an elective, an additional lesson, in a word. But there is Christian ethics. Molecule: If you take the Ivano-Frankivsk region, where the mayor is very pious, it gives priority to the church, it can decide something. In fact, she has nothing to decide.
But in general, it seems to me that the situation with sexual education of children is improving. Now - more advanced parents. We try to convey to our children at least some useful information and not hide sexual subjects. Yes, in my family I will definitely not talk about sex with riddles: "this" should be done so, "this" - in "this" place.
In my opinion, I am the only mom in the kindergarten who will make a kind of program for children: to bring a psychologist who would tell about the "rule of panties", and in general there are many nuances that should be told even by young children. All this should be consistent with parents. But it is necessary - it, not to give the priest and to organize the lessons of Christian ethics. Because it turns out that Christian ethics is holy, not that sex.
Nastya: At least, it would be cool to give parents some book about sexual education of young children, such as Yulia Yarmolenko authorship - not so long ago we were at a lecture. And this will be some kind of benefit. Molecule: The child can come to look at the book, turn and ask the question that is important to it at this point in development. And the issues of three years will be different from five questions.
Porn, erotica and petition for the legalization of Nastya adult content: we [legalize porn and eroticism in Ukraine] have been thinking for a very long time. And the more they deepened this topic, the faster they went to the side. Our country is not ready, honestly. Molecule: I am very annoyed by these "legendary" expositions of police: we exposed an Onlifanshiter, because she sent four photos somewhere. It's very funny. This business is not without crushing.
It turns out that if you legalize it, we will provide business conditions, but people who can get into the tenet of that business and become victims, they are without any protection. It seems to me that it will lead to violence, trafficking in human beings. Nastya: It is now. The porn industry, the prostitution industry-all this goes in parallel with trafficking in human beings, with sex-duct. And with children's in particular. Legalization will mean we support this. It is not ok for me.